"Reversing the words and saying them in a lower, gravely tone doesn't change the meaning. That's what I asked and your answer was praying." That was even more useless than the hugging.

"I don't... know if staying is the best idea," I admit. Do I want to? Maybe. I'm not sure I can tell right now. It probably won't hit me until I'm on the other side of the door. Either way, whether I want to or not has nothing to do with it being a good idea.